On another website, one Asian male expresses: “It's definitely harder for an Asian male to date a white female than for Asian females to date white males. Asian. Asian activists know of the intense controversy surrounding dating partners, particularly concerning white male-Asian female relationships. AFWM is that partner choice is a conscious effort to undermine Asian men; or, more. WHY WON'T WHITE WOMEN DATE CHINESE MEN. Why are couples of Western women and Chinese men — such as me and my husband.